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Best Gift You Can Give to Another Human Being

Time after September 2018 was tough. I had lost my dad, and I just couldn't believe it. I guess this happens when you lose someone all of a sudden, or maybe it happens when you lose someone, it starts as a denial to accept death.  Days were kind of fazed, being in US away from home made it even more difficult. I used to go to a nearby gym in the morning. In normal times I would have gone to that place cheerfully, would have tried to know people there, make new friendships. But those weren't normal times. I went to gym because I liked getting tired, exhausted, I thought somehow the pain will just go away through all that sweat. I wasn't interested in people around me.  However I ended up being friends with three people I met there. Yohana, Judy and Lindsay. These people went beyond normal hi/hello and tried to connect with me. They asked me questions, they waited for me, they kept my spot, they told me what their plans are for holidays, they asked mine, they were intereste...

Love is not enough

Relationships last when two people strive together , to become better . Relationship last when two people stand with each other, for each other in good times and bad. Love is not enough, you also need Respect .  Respect for each other Respect for each others choices,  Respect for each others beliefs,  Respect for each others friends & family,  Respect for each others strengths & weaknesses,  Respect for each others likes & dislikes,  Respect for each others dreams,  Respect for each others differences,  Respect for each others space Respect for each other I am glad, I am fortunate & forever blessed to have found love and respect in my life partner.  Celebrating 10 years wedding anniversary, it has been a journey of endless joy and happiness.  To Manju, forever star of my life story. Thank you for being you. Thank you for making it all so effortless.