Winning
People say some questions are meant to be unanswered, and some people accept this also.
But for a person like me who strongly believe in REASONING, its hard to believe that Things happen without reason, Questions remain unanswered, Disccussions hang without conclusions, Battle finishes without results.
Why do one have to always wait for the RIGHT result? Why do one have to convince himself/herslf about the current result saying, "Have patience right result will come through your way because you deserve it". If someone deserves it and everyone else knows it why that cant simply happen in the first place itself?
Everyday I wake up in the morning thinking I am going to 'Value ADD' this much to my life today. But most of the time day ends with, me trying to keep the value which I have already created for myself. Why do I always have to wait for the things which I know I DESERVE and I CAN get. Why do I try to convince myself that may be what I DESIRE now is less than what I DESERVE? Why do I need to FIGHT to improve quality of my life ?
Is it not sufficient that I put my sincere efforts and I get fair outcome of it? Am I asking unfair? Am I trying to be unreasonable for my wishes?
Why philoshphy always try to DEFEND? why it cant be like pushing towards winning? Why it tries to encourage by negating negativity of life? e.g. "What you deserve can be more than what you desire" Why it cant say things which imply positivity directly?
Or these are all manipulative things by which people convince themselves about life? People accept the speed at which they are achieving their goals by saying Right things will happen at the Right time. People accept the quality of life by saying this is the best they can achieve. Sometime I feel philposophy or whatever of that type which supports accepting the life as it is actually having negative impact overall. It is actually pulling back that driving force towards goal by showing manipulated resaons.
If all those things are not told, if all those things dont pass the message of ACCEPTANCE I guess everyone would be few steps ahead of where they are now. Atleast I dont want to stop by that, I dont want to accept that right time funda, I dont want to wait patiently for right result, I dont want to get satisfy with what I have now, I dont want to convince myself for anything. Rather, I want to make things happen, pull that positivity towards me, pull every win which I deserve in calculated efforts and calculated time,
And if all this implies, 'Survial of the fittest', then I dont want only to survive I want to GROW each day, each moment. I want to keep trying till I win and till I get that speed of winning.
But for a person like me who strongly believe in REASONING, its hard to believe that Things happen without reason, Questions remain unanswered, Disccussions hang without conclusions, Battle finishes without results.
Why do one have to always wait for the RIGHT result? Why do one have to convince himself/herslf about the current result saying, "Have patience right result will come through your way because you deserve it". If someone deserves it and everyone else knows it why that cant simply happen in the first place itself?
Everyday I wake up in the morning thinking I am going to 'Value ADD' this much to my life today. But most of the time day ends with, me trying to keep the value which I have already created for myself. Why do I always have to wait for the things which I know I DESERVE and I CAN get. Why do I try to convince myself that may be what I DESIRE now is less than what I DESERVE? Why do I need to FIGHT to improve quality of my life ?
Is it not sufficient that I put my sincere efforts and I get fair outcome of it? Am I asking unfair? Am I trying to be unreasonable for my wishes?
Why philoshphy always try to DEFEND? why it cant be like pushing towards winning? Why it tries to encourage by negating negativity of life? e.g. "What you deserve can be more than what you desire" Why it cant say things which imply positivity directly?
Or these are all manipulative things by which people convince themselves about life? People accept the speed at which they are achieving their goals by saying Right things will happen at the Right time. People accept the quality of life by saying this is the best they can achieve. Sometime I feel philposophy or whatever of that type which supports accepting the life as it is actually having negative impact overall. It is actually pulling back that driving force towards goal by showing manipulated resaons.
If all those things are not told, if all those things dont pass the message of ACCEPTANCE I guess everyone would be few steps ahead of where they are now. Atleast I dont want to stop by that, I dont want to accept that right time funda, I dont want to wait patiently for right result, I dont want to get satisfy with what I have now, I dont want to convince myself for anything. Rather, I want to make things happen, pull that positivity towards me, pull every win which I deserve in calculated efforts and calculated time,
And if all this implies, 'Survial of the fittest', then I dont want only to survive I want to GROW each day, each moment. I want to keep trying till I win and till I get that speed of winning.
Comments
Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm - Winston Churchill
Then how do you handle defeat.
What do you do when you have lost.
This is when you start all manipulative things by which people convince themselves. Is there no better way to handle defeat. Why dont u get what u desire? Are you working towards it.. by the way remember, YOU deserve it! We always fail to remember this. What i desire is what i deserve.
Because If you get more than what you deserve then you can be under tremendous pressure. So Deserve before you desire'
Its all in the Perspective.
well sometimes I Step Away when i start losing. If losing has become a habit then something must be wrong with me, my strategy.
So step away, work on new things, work on what went wrong.
If theres nothing wrong.... again the manipulative game of Win Well, Lose Well.
I've come to realize that my ability to handle a loss is directly related to my ability to handle a win. Obviously, everyone likes to win -- but the thrill of winning can be destructive. The more elated and ecstatic you are after winning, the more dejected and frustrated you are after losing.
Yes, I agree winning is thing, but not the only thing. Losing is a thing, but not the big thing. Both are way of life. Learn to handle them well. For me atleast, losing has taught many lessons. What I am today is because of what all I have lost till today.
A smooth sea never made a good sailor.
Take each day as it comes..
All the best.